Have you ever felt sad, but you just don't understand the reason? Have you ever felt lonely, when you had so many friends around you? Have you ever felt angry on someone without any reason? Do you feel like being famous? and hate the fact that you are not and no matter how hard you try, you just can't change yourself?

What i mentioned above, 85% of my friends feel the same. 
It's like they feel lost, they are trying to find a way to escape the prison they have created in their mind.
But, most of us are really not comfortable sharing all that with family and friends. 
Because they have a completely different thinking about us.

For your family and friends, you maybe happy person, who always jokes around, makes everyone laughs. But, when you are alone, you get these feelings of being sad, lonely, broken. And you dont even share it with others, as they have a different thinking about you and you dont want that to change. So, it keeps growing bigger day by day.

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When you feel lazy, you just don't want to do anything. You just want to sit down and relax, but this laziness can cost you much more than what you think.

So here are the few ways you can stop being lazy

START BY DOING A LITTLE
Take a small step towards your goal, don't rush towards it. If you are planning to start gym, don't set a goal that you cannot achieve or don't set a goal that you know will be hard for you to achieve everyday. Start by doing a little. For example, instead of 1 hour training, set 30 minutes training everyday. Even if you want to train more, just keep it the same for few weeks. and when you are really sure you can do more. Take another step and increase the time.

REMEMBER HOW MANY TIMES YOU HAVE USED THE "IF" WORD

"Only if i had done this, i would have been somewhere else".
"Only if i had studied, i would have passed my exams".

Don't we always use such words?

Whenever you feel lazy, just remind yourself what you are going to lose.
That 1 hour you wasted on your phone, could have been used in learning a new language or leaning a new skill.




SPEND YOUR TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO MOTIVATE YOU
If you start making friends who are lazy just like you or even lazier than you. Trust me! it will be really hard for you to stop being lazy.

Keep friends who are motivated and who motivate you as well.

You plan to wake up early in the morning so that you can start running and increase your stamina and decrease your weight. What do you think? Which friend will help you in achieving that goal?
A Lazy person just like you or someone who keeps motivating you?

"Doing something alone is very hard but doing the same thing with a partner makes it easier".

ESCAPE THE SOCIAL MEDIA
When we are feeling lazy, most people start using social media platforms to pass their time. We spend few hours on facebook and instagram without even realizing it.
If you really want to change yourself, say goodbye to social media platforms or atleast set a time to use them.
And remember when you are working keep your phone on silent, just one notification can be enough to ruin your plans for the day.

SET GOALS FOR THE NEXT DAY
Create around 5 goals you want to achieve the other day. And once you wake up, start focusing on those goals.
The goals can be anything you feel will be better than doing nothing.

You can create goals such as:

  1. Sending your CV to few companies
  2. Doing 50 push ups
  3. Watering plants
  4. Trying a new recipe
  5. Reading a book

Once you are done with each task, put a tick and create goals for tomorrow.

"Do something today that your future self will thank you for"


HOW TO STOP BEING LAZY

Feeling angry is a common thing. when you are angry you just don't realize what you are doing or whom you are hurting with you words or actions.

So how can you control your anger?


1. Talk to yourself first - when you feel angry on someone or something, take a pause and talk to yourself. think about the consequences, think about the guilt you will feel. Ask yourself is your anger worth more than the people you love ?

2. Leave that place - when you are angry, you just don't know what will happen if you stay there. So just leave that place and spend some time alone.

3. Take a deep breath - when you are angry just take a deep breath and try to calm yourself down. If you standing than just sit down and if you are sitting just sleep for a while. Changing position does help.

4. Buy a punching bag - for most of the people,it's really hard to control their anger, and they just want to hit something or someone. So just buy a punching bag. and take out all your anger on it. This technique helped me and might help you as well.

5. Go to sleep - this may not be helpful at that time, but its better if you go sleep when you are angry. Just lock your room and go to sleep. Some people may end up crying as well in anger. Its ok! cry if you want to, on your bed and just try to sleep. The next morning you will feel your anger has reduced. sometimes crying helps as well.

"Do not let your anger lead to hatred, as you will hurt yourself more than you would the other."
Stephen Richards

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HOW CAN YOU STOP GETTING ANGRY

When you really want something which someone else has, and you start hating them for no reason or you feel sad and depressed because of that, this emotion is called JEALOUSY.

Almost everyone has gone through this emotion, we even feel jealous on things that don't really matter to us. For instance, you don't play football, you hardly even watch it, but when you see someone cheering up for your classmate who plays really well, you end up feeling jealous.

"JEALOUSY IS A DISEASE NOT EVERYONE CAN FIGHT"

HOW CAN YOU STOP FEELING JEALOUS



1.
You already have enough - when we start looking at what we already have, rather than looking what others have, our life will become much better. And jealousy will reduce.
You are sad because you don't have a big car, what if you start looking at those people who walk from home to work or those people who take bus and have to stand for so long waiting for the bus to arrive. Don't you think your life is much better than others??

2. You don't know what problems they are facing - when we start feeling jealous, we only see what good things people have but we forget the fact that everyone has problems in their life. remember no one will post their problems on social media, but they will only post the good things going on in their life.
For example, you are jealous of a person who has big house, but you have no idea that he just lost his dad few days ago.
So if you ever feel jealous, just remind yourself that those people have problems in their life as well which you are not going through. everyone is fighting his/her own battle.

3. Avoid using social media platforms - most of us start feeling jealous through social media platforms, especially instagram and Facebook. Everyone will put their best picture, their best memory and amazing life which they are having. And you will definitely feel jealous. So just stop using it for a while and see the difference in your life

4. Stop becoming people pleaser - we spend so much of our time pleasing people that we forget who we truly are. We want to show off. We want everyone to say good things about us, we want everyone to praise us. Maybe, you dream of having a big car, so that you can show off to your friends, you want others to praise you, you want to become famous in your college or at your work. And if you don't have it and you see others having that life, you end up becoming jealous. Listen! Why do you want friends who will only be with you if you are wealthy and Successful? Why do you want friends who will only be with you if you are famous? Those same people wont be seen if you face any hardship in your life. They are just there because of your status. Is it worth keeping such friends?

Share with us your experience. What did you do to remove jealousy ? How did you achieve peace of mind?




HOW TO STOP YOURSELF FROM FEELING JEALOUS

What is peace of mind?

Peace of mind is not about being happy every second or minute.
Peace of mind is where you are able to stay positive, even in the negative situations.
It's not easy though to stay positive when life is putting you in difficult situations.
But, you should keep trying until you achieve it.

How do you achieve it?  

THINK POSITIVE
For instance, you wanted a job, you went for an interview, and you were expecting to get selected. But, that didn't happened. So instead of getting sad, you told yourself you will get better job than this and kept yourself motivated

STOP GETTING JEALOUS 
When you see others having something which you really want but you can't get it, and you usually start hating them for no reason or you become sad because of that. This hate and sadness is called being jealous. You should always remember, everyone has some unique skills in them which others don't have. Find that one unique thing in you and accept the fact that you already have enough.

STOP LIVING IN YOUR PAST  
Can you change what happened in your past? can you go back and make it right? No you can't! than why even think about it. Accept your mistakes and move on. OR try making things right! you failed in maths exam, work harder and pass in the next maths exam with good marks. Learn from your mistakes instead of remembering them everyday and ruining your peace of mind.

DO A KIND ACT
Help a blind person pass the road.
Give orphans food and clothes.
Carry groceries for an elder person.
Meet people with a smile.
Give some charity.
Apologise to someone you have hurted intentionally or unintentionally.

REMEMBER GOD AND PRAY
The best way to achieve peace of mind is by remembering your creator. Always remember god loves you, and he loves you more when you return back to him after commiting a sin.
You commited a big sin, you lose your peace of mind, you feel sad, you just dont know what to do.
You go to the mosque and pray, you ask for his forgiveness, you cry out loud to him, he hears your cry and suddenly you will feel ease, you suddenly feel peace in your heart. That becomes the best feeling you ever had.







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